@musicmee
I'm not interested in being a captain or giving orders. I was more interested in how to ensure that I always play with MY [legendary] ship rather than the bog standard plain ship.
I had a really good crew during the beta and we have plans to play together when the full game is released, but it's likely that we'll also be playing apart from each other (due to occasional different work hours) so we'll level up at different rates. If one of us reaches legendary status before the rest and gets his own ship, it would be nice to be able to use his ship each game. I don't know if I'm explaining myself properly, but I basically want to know how it is determined who the 'host' (not the captain) is each time you start a game.